Comments on: Flame Out http://www.danielgoleman.info/2008/10/14/flame-out/ Emotional Intelligence, Social Intelligence, Ecological Intelligence Tue, 06 Apr 2010 15:54:02 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: jim lagnese http://www.danielgoleman.info/2008/10/14/flame-out/comment-page-1/#comment-687 jim lagnese Mon, 17 Nov 2008 04:13:40 +0000 http://www.danielgoleman.info/blog/2008/10/14/flame-out/#comment-687 I just read your article in the New York Times. What a great article. The problem is, how does one do it? It's been something I have been trying to quantify for some time and you are the first person I have read that boils it down. Any books I should be looking at? Thanks. I just read your article in the New York Times. What a great article. The problem is, how does one do it? It’s been something I have been trying to quantify for some time and you are the first person I have read that boils it down. Any books I should be looking at? Thanks.

]]> By: Coretta Jackson, MBA http://www.danielgoleman.info/2008/10/14/flame-out/comment-page-1/#comment-686 Coretta Jackson, MBA Wed, 12 Nov 2008 15:17:05 +0000 http://www.danielgoleman.info/blog/2008/10/14/flame-out/#comment-686 What a great way to encourage cooler heads to prevail! I can imagine that other email providers will follow suite...in their own way...soon. Best, Coretta Jackson, MBA Coretta@Businessethos.com What a great way to encourage cooler heads to prevail!

I can imagine that other email providers will follow suite…in their own way…soon.

Best,

Coretta Jackson, MBA
Coretta@Businessethos.com

]]> By: tlutzenberger http://www.danielgoleman.info/2008/10/14/flame-out/comment-page-1/#comment-685 tlutzenberger Sun, 02 Nov 2008 00:49:50 +0000 http://www.danielgoleman.info/blog/2008/10/14/flame-out/#comment-685 Take a look at the trouble flaming using a lawyer can get you into. I've linked it at my 11/1 post on my blog www.greenpaperchase.wordpress.com . It's the kind of emotional response that makes you want to shake your head in disbelief or yell, "STUPID!" Take a look at the trouble flaming using a lawyer can get you into. I’ve linked it at my 11/1 post on my blog http://www.greenpaperchase.wordpress.com . It’s the kind of emotional response that makes you want to shake your head in disbelief or yell, “STUPID!”

]]> By: Glenn http://www.danielgoleman.info/2008/10/14/flame-out/comment-page-1/#comment-684 Glenn Wed, 29 Oct 2008 06:04:19 +0000 http://www.danielgoleman.info/blog/2008/10/14/flame-out/#comment-684 Everyone has email they would like to take back. This is the start of a great thing. How about options to: - ask "Are You Crazy?" like "Are You Sure?" based on key words in your email - have the email read aloud to you - have a draft sent to you Thanks! Everyone has email they would like to take back. This is the start of a great thing. How about options to:
- ask “Are You Crazy?” like “Are You Sure?” based on key words in your email
- have the email read aloud to you
- have a draft sent to you
Thanks!

]]> By: Coretta Jackson, MBA http://www.danielgoleman.info/2008/10/14/flame-out/comment-page-1/#comment-683 Coretta Jackson, MBA Tue, 28 Oct 2008 01:23:01 +0000 http://www.danielgoleman.info/blog/2008/10/14/flame-out/#comment-683 Great News! I am sure emotional intelligence tool will help more people consider their words...before sending an email. Best, Coretta Jackson, MBA Coretta@Businessethos.com Great News!

I am sure emotional intelligence tool will help more people consider their words…before sending an email.

Best,
Coretta Jackson, MBA
Coretta@Businessethos.com

]]> By: Barry Goldberg http://www.danielgoleman.info/2008/10/14/flame-out/comment-page-1/#comment-682 Barry Goldberg Mon, 20 Oct 2008 14:03:12 +0000 http://www.danielgoleman.info/blog/2008/10/14/flame-out/#comment-682 Actually, Google is way behind on this one. Mobile companies around the world (but most notably in Australia) have offered a service like this for years. You can create a list of phone numbers and text addresses and (for a fee) the system will block you from calling those numbers for a prearranged period of time. Just the thing to prevent drinking and dialing before a pub crawl. Actually, Google is way behind on this one. Mobile companies around the world (but most notably in Australia) have offered a service like this for years. You can create a list of phone numbers and text addresses and (for a fee) the system will block you from calling those numbers for a prearranged period of time. Just the thing to prevent drinking and dialing before a pub crawl.

]]> By: Ana http://www.danielgoleman.info/2008/10/14/flame-out/comment-page-1/#comment-681 Ana Fri, 17 Oct 2008 22:45:58 +0000 http://www.danielgoleman.info/blog/2008/10/14/flame-out/#comment-681 Hi, We've been reading your book "Emotional Intelligence" in one of my education courses [Emotion, Cognition and Education] and I just wanted to let you know that your book is really fascinating. How exactly would you define your construct of emotional intelligence? Also: You can actually make the goggles work at anytime if you change the presets under settings, it has the option of enabling the goggles at any time you choose. I am forever in awe of google =) Hope all is well. Ana Hi,

We’ve been reading your book “Emotional Intelligence” in one of my education courses [Emotion, Cognition and Education] and I just wanted to let you know that your book is really fascinating. How exactly would you define your construct of emotional intelligence?

Also: You can actually make the goggles work at anytime if you change the presets under settings, it has the option of enabling the goggles at any time you choose. I am forever in awe of google =)

Hope all is well.

Ana

]]> By: Ivo Quartiroli http://www.danielgoleman.info/2008/10/14/flame-out/comment-page-1/#comment-680 Ivo Quartiroli Tue, 14 Oct 2008 13:30:12 +0000 http://www.danielgoleman.info/blog/2008/10/14/flame-out/#comment-680 Google, in addition to being motherly, feeding us with almost infinite information, now seeks to acquire a paternalistic role for itself by helping us in regulating and setting our limits. This simple software starts as usual in an innocent and low-profile manner, but marks the beginning of an intervention regarding our intentions and inner lives. Anyway this service can be helpful even though I won't associate the ability to do simple math with balance, compassion or reflection. I mused about this on <a href="http://www.indranet.org/mail-goggles/" rel="nofollow"> Mail Goggles</a> Google, in addition to being motherly, feeding us with almost infinite information, now seeks to acquire a paternalistic role for itself by helping us in regulating and setting our limits. This simple software starts as usual in an innocent and low-profile manner, but marks the beginning of an intervention regarding our intentions and inner lives. Anyway this service can be helpful even though I won’t associate the ability to do simple math with balance, compassion or reflection. I mused about this on Mail Goggles

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